Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
Hey i need some advice could you please read my journal entry, thanks big hugs
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
if this just happened a month ago, it is completely normal to still be having all of these feelings. mine occured 5 1/2 years ago, and i'm just now going to a support group and working through some of it.
some of the pain and emotions that you are feeling, will never go away. but some of it will, and all of it will definitely lessen through time. especially if you learn how to deal with it. i suggest a professional or support group (i love my support group and dont know how i went this long without it).
but, please hang in there, and find a way that works for you best to talk through it, work through some of the emotions you are going through. it may be hard in the beginning, but it will get easier and it will is very helpful.
as far as turning him in goes, i don't have much advice for that. i feared what would happen to me if i did, so i never went to the police. i had to focus all of my energy on making it through my day-to-day life. sometimes i look back and regret not turning him in, but overall i am comfortable with my decision. so that is one that you will have to think about and decide for yourself. but most importantly, just take care of yourself. write. talk to someone. join a group. this site helps as well, because you realize you are not alone in your feelings! it's great. take care :-)