I am so confused and scared. I've posted in the discussion section but I just really need advice. My husband is usually the perfect husband but we've had our problems. Over the past couple months we've had more problems and the fights have gotten worse. Then I made a huge mistake and kissed another guy and he saw me and it tore him apart and seemed to drive him mad. About a week and a half later we had to go to a military ball and he thought I was looking at the other guy and when we got home we fought and he choked me, hit me many times, emotional terrified me, and raped me. Now of course he is sorry and says the guy in him that did that is dead and he wants me to give it another try. He is starting counseling, I'm already in counseling and we are supposed to go to marriage counseling. OK, here is finally the advice I need...is it possible to get over this and stay married? I'm confused but I want to keep myself and my kids safe and I feel now like a part of me is dead, but he thinks if I don't try counseling I'm quitting, I don't want to quit, but can it be saved?
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