
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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I have done it all--counseling, medication, EMDR and I still find myself "suriviving" not living--the only thing I haven't done is confront him--he is spending the rest of his life in prison--will me confronting him make me feel better--cause right now--after 16 years--he is still winning.
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I did go see my rapist. I was violently raped in my own bed by a stranger who came thru a downstairs window. He pleaded guilty so I did not have to go thru the trial, thank God. I would attend his parole hearings, but did not have to see him. They would ask me questions about how he had changed my life, etc.
About ten years after the rape, I wanted to see him, but I no longer feared him. I was ANGRY at him and I just wanted to spit in his face. I needed to bring the whole thing full circle so I could move on.
At that time he had been there 10 years and looked like he had aged about 30. He was very quiet......... didn't even know who I was at first. I didn't have a lot to say, but I got my point across. I let him know that I KNEW how rapist were treated in prison and that I hoped he was raped EVERY DAY he was in there so he could feel the fear, the feeling of having no control, and the violation. I spoke fast but clear............ I had no fear of him whatsoever. I had what I had to say and left by telling him that I hoped he died in that prison as that he was not worth the tax payers money to keep him alive.
Did I feel better? You are DAMN right I did and have NEVER regretted my decision. How he looked spoke for itself. He obviously was not watching cable and enjoying the prison's library during his 10 years at that time (he got a total of 99 years). He looked used and abused and like a lost dog. A "dog" is not even the right metaphor as I love dogs.......... he looked like a man who had been beaten down in life.
Did he apologize? Did he show remorse? No. He said nothing. I never gave him a chance even had he had tried. In fact, when they first brought him out, I told him straight up to keep his mouth shut as I was charge this time and had no interest in hearing anything he had to say. I'm a pretty strong personality and by that time, 10 years had gone by........... so I was set on what that meeting would entail. He is the SCUM OF THE EARTH and I let him know it.
Unfortunately I couldn't spit in his face because he was behind a glass window........... just where an animal should be!