
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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Does anyone else use sex now as something to make them feel better. I know it's not healty, but I find that I use promiscuity as a way to cope. I feel like if I treat sex like it's no big deal than the whole rape thing isn't so bad. If sex isn't important then what happened to me was no worse than someone forcing me to shake their hand. Also, I feel like I'm asserting my independence and right to choose everytime I consciously choose to sleep with someone. Does any of that make sense to anyone?
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