Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
I was raped very young and have never been in a relationship longer than three weeks.
My first and only boyfriend would get me drunk so that I would sleep with him. I'm not sure if I said no when he took my virginity (I don't include what my brother did to me as taking my virginity) but I'm more sure everyday that the time he tried to sleep with me he stopped only because there were people in the next room.
The last guy I was seeing was really good to me but every time our dates would end he would want sex. He promised at the end of our last date that he 'wouldn't try anything' if I went back to his and he did and I felt that I had to tell him that I'd been raped. He was really good about it and apologised and it felt great to trust a guy about something I felt was running my life.
The last time I saw him he tried to sleep with me again and when I told him I still didn't want to he decided he didn't want to have a relationship with me.
Every other man has only wanted me to be a one night stand. All these men where former friends of mine.
I'm not sure if I will ever stop feeling like 'my' body is here for men to use at the leisure.
Does anyone else feel like this?
My first and only boyfriend would get me drunk so that I would sleep with him. I'm not sure if I said no when he took my virginity (I don't include what my brother did to me as taking my virginity) but I'm more sure everyday that the time he tried to sleep with me he stopped only because there were people in the next room.
The last guy I was seeing was really good to me but every time our dates would end he would want sex. He promised at the end of our last date that he 'wouldn't try anything' if I went back to his and he did and I felt that I had to tell him that I'd been raped. He was really good about it and apologised and it felt great to trust a guy about something I felt was running my life.
The last time I saw him he tried to sleep with me again and when I told him I still didn't want to he decided he didn't want to have a relationship with me.
Every other man has only wanted me to be a one night stand. All these men where former friends of mine.
I'm not sure if I will ever stop feeling like 'my' body is here for men to use at the leisure.
Does anyone else feel like this?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
sometimes i fell into the trap, because i felt like that was all i was worth, but i finally came to a point where i had to change my life around. when guys wouldn't respect my decision to say no, i realized they weren't my real friends.
i believe that once your self-esteem grows, and you start having respect for yourself, others will have respect for you also.
There are people out there who do not want to use you, your body or otherwise. I am assured that they are not few and far between but I am not sure I believe that yet. In my experience trust is the key and trust has to be won or proven and that is with yourself as well as a partner. Please don't give up hope or faith in yourself.