
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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I was with a man who was 18 years older than me when I was 17. I told him I would never have sex with him the first time we talked...but the week after my 18th birthday...it just happened? I stayed with him for two years because I so desperately wanted someone to love me...but i dont think he did. My question is...After we split, he begged me to see him because he was depressed, i agreed...when we met I told him again and again I would not be sexual with him...and believe me, I was SO proud of myself! He asked so much that eventually I gave a kinda maybe/no/maybe/whatever kinda answer and then he penetrated me...
My therapist tells me thats rape...but I have trouble believing her...I feel like because I didnt give the clear NO right before it happened...it doesnt count?
Advice? Opinions?
My therapist tells me thats rape...but I have trouble believing her...I feel like because I didnt give the clear NO right before it happened...it doesnt count?
Advice? Opinions?
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I guess, in my opinion, the only one that can answer that question is you. My situation is some what simular, and I feel, yes, it was. Others may not look at it that way.
You have to be the one to know. Say the same thing happened to your best friend, or something. Would you think it was rape, then? Chances are, it was.