Almost 8 yrs ago, I was raped. Since it happened I have stayed away from any relationships even dating. I thought I was over what happened to me so started dating. Fortunately I truly found the perfect man.. he accepts me, understands what happened and respects me. Tells me our relationship is more then sex..we have true feelings for eachother. However I appreciate him being so supportive but what guy wants to stick around when his girlfriend has no interest in being intimate with him. I truly care about him. When we are together everything is perfect I feel safe & happy. I'm comfortable. I enjoy holding hands & cuddling & kissing him but beyond that I can't even think of sex.. things get heated then I just freeze feel like I don't know what to do .. its a horrible feeling. Was just wondering if anyone else feels like this or has experienced this..please tell me its normal & I can overcome it.
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I am a rape survivor. The abuse stopped in 2010. But here recently I have found that the reprocussions have started now. I have a chance with my significant other for a real future and I am struggling. I don't feel like I am worth more than I am now. And I don't want to continue the pattern