
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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Hi everyone hope u are all ok.
Bit of background - i am married and have a 2 year old son.
I was raped in september by someone that i knew, not well but my friend had known him for 2 yrs or so. I dont really want to discuss the details at the moment as this is the first time i have discussed it. only 3 people know, my husband, my best friend and my friend(not so much anymore) who was there that night.
I thought I was coping but im really not. Im pregnant and i dont know if its going to be my husbands or not, not sure if i ant to know, i couldnt terminate as chance it is my husbands and is still my baby.
I cant stand to be touched in a sexual way, whilst having sex i get flashbacks and i hate it, i wish i could erase those awful memories.
I dont want to talk about it, im ashamed. I had been on a night out at the time, was very drunk but i knew i didnt want it, i hate having to think about it, it makes me feel sick. I cried throughout.
Bit of background - i am married and have a 2 year old son.
I was raped in september by someone that i knew, not well but my friend had known him for 2 yrs or so. I dont really want to discuss the details at the moment as this is the first time i have discussed it. only 3 people know, my husband, my best friend and my friend(not so much anymore) who was there that night.
I thought I was coping but im really not. Im pregnant and i dont know if its going to be my husbands or not, not sure if i ant to know, i couldnt terminate as chance it is my husbands and is still my baby.
I cant stand to be touched in a sexual way, whilst having sex i get flashbacks and i hate it, i wish i could erase those awful memories.
I dont want to talk about it, im ashamed. I had been on a night out at the time, was very drunk but i knew i didnt want it, i hate having to think about it, it makes me feel sick. I cried throughout.
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