Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
Hey im new to site, i was hesitant about joining this community. Anyway my house mates and i had a house party last month, and i invited this guy whose been my friend for four years, due to the fact the house was so crowded he shared my room. Theres very few men i trust anyway but i trusted him and didnt think anything of getting drunk and having a good night. We all went to bed around four, every1 had drank a bit much and he stayed in my room. I was vaguely aware of him being on top of me, i stupidly thought if i didn't respond or move he would stop but he didnt. I cant remember much due to fear and alcohol but i know he penetrated me because it hurt, after it was over i spent the night in the bathroom as their was peeps everywhere. Was it rape, i know i didnt want to, and in the years ive known him we've never slept together or anything, where did it come from? was it my fault? He keeps ringing and saying hes sorry, ive stopped pickin up the phone. The worse thing is he didnt use a condom, i went and got the morning after pill, but my periods late this month!! Im so scared and worried
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I feel I have no right to give you advice as I am too weak to come to terms with what has happened to me but know that we are all here if you want to talk.
There will be lots of smart people giving you advice in no time.
I'm thinking of you,
Harrien x
Sorry for the capitals, I just had to get that across. I've got friends (both male and female) who I can get completely rat-arsed with and I know I'll be safe, they'd never dream of taking advantage. (And besides which, what normal healthy man wants sex with a woman who's too out of it to consent or even enjoy it? That's not erotic by anyone's definition!)
You need to get to your doctor asap for tests/advice - but try not to worry too much at this stage, as we all know the slightest emotional upset can throw our monthly cycles into chaos. I've also had a delayed period after taking the morning-after pill, I think this is a fairly normal side-effect after taking a huge dose of hormones. Fingers crossed it'll be OK, but don't bury your head in the sand about it either.