Hi, I was recently raped and I am just starting to deal with it all. I have been in denial for just over a month now. I really just need to talk to people who have also been through what I am going through. My family and friends have been supportive, but none of them know what I am actually going through. And at times I even feel judged by some of them for what happened to me. I have lost friends because of what happened, and I am just feeling completely alone right now. Is this normal? I know that it's wrong, but I am still feeling like a lot of what happened is my fault. The guy is being charged with it all, and I am really worried about the upcoming trial. I would greatly appreciate any advice or support from anyone. Especially those who have gone through a similar ordeal. Councelling doesn't work for me because I don't know them well enough to trust them. I am hoping that by doing this anomynously I can have some feedback, and be able to communicate better myself. So much about me has changed even though it doesn't seem like it at times. I just need some help right now.
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