
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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I'm so upset right now because I think I shared my story with the wrong man. I wrote a guy who I thought was my friend an email explaining the basics of what happened. I know he read it but he hasn't emailed me back, and I think he blocked me from our email chat thing we both have. I haven't talked to him for awhile because I've been paranoid of guys for awhile, but I explained all this in the email. I'm so hurt and disappointed because he's a guy and I wanted him to get angry and protective. Has anyone else gotten bad reaction's from men? Now it's like, I'm so angry at him in addition to the guy who attacked me. That's very hutful and I don't know how to deal and he has it all in writing
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I don't know if it's just a male thing... some people are just totally unable to understand, comprehend, whatever... this is an ugly thing, and some people can't handle that kind of ugly. Don't take it personally. And if he's going to be like this, let him. Maybe one day his head won't be so happy planted in his tush, and he'll get over whatever is wrong with him at this point.
Don't stress about all of the unknowns with this... I know that sounds rediculously stupid - I'm an obsessive stressball myself - but really, there is nothing you can do about it, short of a face to face confrontation. And to do that with someone who isn't being a particularly good friend just sounds like a not so hot idea.
Sorry you're going through this, hun
Yet I've also had guys be absolutely wonderful about it. And it may just be that he doesn't know how to talk to you about it and he worries about doing it the "wrong" way and so avoids it altogether
Even if he reacts badly, it just means that he lacks the means to support you. You didn't do anything wrong at any time, and telling can in itself be therapeutic. So you may get some benefit anyway, just by telling him.