If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
I'm sorry its been so long. I've been having a hard time. My medication isn't working. I'm having lots of trouble with anxiety, I'm not sleeping and I'm so depressed I'm barely getting out of bed. I'm isolating and relapsing in my eating disorder. I hate that "I was raped" has become my identity. I don't want that to define me. But everything I do revolved around the rape. Everything I feel, the fact that my schoolwork is starting to suffer...etc. How do I redefine myself so that I don't get trapped being the girl who was raped??? I don't want that to be my identity.