Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
omg. it still hurts almost on the inside. i was raped a few weeks ago and it feels strange. i can almost still feel him inside of me and i can feel that physical pain peircing through me but its like the physical pain is now emotional pain. my heart feels like ICE when i think of him and i feel sick inside. i clench my insides at the thaught of sex now, i dont want it.
this genunially nice lad wants to now date me but i cant even let him touch me- he would be nice at a diffrent time in my life but now i cant even bare him touching me but i dont want to hurt his feelings.
neither do i particuallarly want to expain what ive been through- it makes me feel like a weak person for someone to do that to me.
any advice?
x
this genunially nice lad wants to now date me but i cant even let him touch me- he would be nice at a diffrent time in my life but now i cant even bare him touching me but i dont want to hurt his feelings.
neither do i particuallarly want to expain what ive been through- it makes me feel like a weak person for someone to do that to me.
any advice?
x
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i know how u feel
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You are not weak, step one would be to stop thinking that. You don't have to date anyone you don't want too, especially right now and you shouldn't have to explain why. Take one day at a time. It hurts and it will keep hurting until you have found peace and in my personal experience I am still working on that, a few weeks is unfortunately a blink of an eye. Deep breaths. You are strong not weak and you will be ok. Do you have a safe person you can talk to right now? Is there counseling at your school? If not, I am here and, I can listen. You are not alone.
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Hey... I hope all goes fine with you. Just let him know what pace you want to go. He will either accept it or move on. You just need time to yourself to figure out how you want to handle this and where you want to go a far as relationships. At this time sex will be the last thing on your mind. Good luck, I hope I helped..
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