
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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Last week i did something stupid, thoughtless and cruel. After my partner went to work i got all my stuff together and left him. I don't know why, we didn't even have an argument, things have been going so well between us.
I know it was a horrid thing to do, i didnt call him, text him just left him to come home from work and find me gone. I got a load of messages on my phone pleading with me to tell him what hed done wrong, that id broken his heart etc.
So he found me at my friends house and i got in his car and we talked. He was angry and quite rightfully - i couldn't even explain myself.
He came out with some really nasty things:
- I need to pull myself together, because i act like i'm the only one whos ever been through shit.
- I'm a dirty slag (i know he said that just to upset me)
- I need to get over the fact my grandads dying because its a reality, people die, and im making a big thing out of it.
- I've just used him so i can get over my own issues
- He can't believe he let someone as fucked up as me around his daughter, and that i hadn't just abandoned him, ive abandoned her (that really hurt)
and lots of other things.
Were back together now, and i'm glad hes forgiven me and its all sorted but i just can't forget these things... was he right??
I know it was a horrid thing to do, i didnt call him, text him just left him to come home from work and find me gone. I got a load of messages on my phone pleading with me to tell him what hed done wrong, that id broken his heart etc.
So he found me at my friends house and i got in his car and we talked. He was angry and quite rightfully - i couldn't even explain myself.
He came out with some really nasty things:
- I need to pull myself together, because i act like i'm the only one whos ever been through shit.
- I'm a dirty slag (i know he said that just to upset me)
- I need to get over the fact my grandads dying because its a reality, people die, and im making a big thing out of it.
- I've just used him so i can get over my own issues
- He can't believe he let someone as fucked up as me around his daughter, and that i hadn't just abandoned him, ive abandoned her (that really hurt)
and lots of other things.
Were back together now, and i'm glad hes forgiven me and its all sorted but i just can't forget these things... was he right??
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