My girlfriend, well ex girlfriend was raped by her father and impregnated, her ex boyfriend, well boyfriend at the time found her laying in a garage unconcious. They didnt get her any sort of help, all they did was tell her ex's mom, who is a nurse, and she paid for an abortion. She was 16/17 at the time. Now she feels as if she owes her ex and his mother her life, for saving her. I completely understand where she is coming from about that, but without it being reported, she never received any help for it. I feel what they did made her worse. After all of that happend, they dated for a while and he ended up cheating on her multiple times. He verbally abuses her and calls her all these terrible things. But she does whatever she can to make him happy, and to not upset him. He wouldnt let her go out anywhere, told her what to wear, and is completely taking over her life. He is making her worse and holding what happened to her against her. I am the 3rd person she has ever told this to in her life, and i feel like i am the only one that can help her. This isnt a question or me just trying to do this to get rid of her ex, because i really dont care if they are together or not, i love this girl with all my heart and just need to find something to tell her or some way to convince her to get help, whether or not we are together. I just want her to be able to live a normal life. Well, as normal as she possible can. Anyone have any idea what to do or say? Im on my knees right now praying for something.
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