I had a good friend recently make an unwanted advance towards me. I didn't know what to do and ended up panicing. Part of the reason this was so upsetting to me was because my friend is engaged, and the freezing part triggered some things about my rape. There was only one person I felt I could confide in with this and he ended up subtly blaming me for it, saying things like I put myself in an unsafe position and I should've known better. My friend doesn't know that I was raped and I'm not quite sure how to confront him without telling him that secret (which I don't want to do). Any ideas?
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