Rape Support Group

If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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i cant close my eyes without seeing him.

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i cant close my eyes without seeing my rapest and it hurts so bad. everytime i close my eyes i either have a flashback or see his face. it makes me want to just kill myself but i know i cant. someone please help im only 15 and dont want to end up in the ER again for attempting suicide.
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hey sweetie. listen, i'm in a simliar boat as you and hear is what i've been hearing: trauma is super hard and things like flshbacks are real- so that you have to go out of your way to fight and improve your whole condition. maybe i'll look up online tips and techniques for what to do when you have a flashback and get to everyone. hang in there, you are precious, everyone wants to see you hang around and turn into something great...let me if you need anything....r
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i just wanted to say, i know how you feel. i close my eyes and see the guys who raped me too. i have nightmares about it. and im just now going through all of this. but stay strong and reach out to someone that you know in you heart that you can trust. i have faith that things will get better, even if it doesnt seem like it right now.
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I can completely understand how you feel as i have the exact same feelings myself sometimes. All I can say is try and talk to someone and get it all out in the open, dont let him take your life. Im here if you need me.
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dont blame yourslf with suicide
you cant let the rapist ruin your life anymore
i know its hard but it will make you stronger
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hey girly well it has been almost 6 years since the rape and it was harder at first 4 me i did the same thing and im not gonna lie to u i still have nitemares and have a hared time sleeping but if u get help tell ur story that has made me stronger iam prayin 4 u
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I get that too, it does not help when you are married. I am recieving cognitive therapy through my psych dr. I am hoping to find new ways of coping....Hang in there, you can get support!
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hI HUNNIE,
I was raped 7 years ago and have suffered the same flashbacks, In the beginning they were 24/7 but now they have got less and more managable. Hang on in there babe and get some support round you. Dont let him continue to control you further. Im here for you x x
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