Ladies, I need advice. Tonight I found out that my wife of 5 years and partner of 7 was raped just before we met. She felt that she wouldnt tell me due to the fact she thought I wouldnt want "used goods" of course this is wrong. This is a lot to soak in right now of course but I would like to hear what I can do, to get us past this so we can try to experiance normal life. It all makes sense now that this is why she has serious trust and deprission issues. I dont want to involve her family but I would like to work through this as soon as possible. This will cause marital strain. Since our talk earlier tonight she has not said one word to me and is treating me like im the bastard that did this. So any advice would be greatly appricated.
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