My husband is great. It has been 3 yrs since the rape. Sometimes I'm OK with making love and other times I just can't. He tells me I'm sending mixed signals. Which I guess I could be. I'm not sure. Some days I'm ok and it doesn't cross my mind. And then, I don't understand it myself, I don't want him to touch me. It's not like he does anything to make me not want to. Am I going crazy or is this normal. Please help....after 3 yrs shouldn't I be over it. Or be able to deal with it.
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