
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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Hi,
I was a virgin when I was raped (I got away in the middle of it, but penetration happened) and haven't had sex since. I am so confused about what my status is and what to say when it comes up, etc- it's an identity crisis. I didn't give it up but something physical happened so I don't know? If I don't call myself a virgin then I get mad about what happened and start with flashbacks. I don't know what to call myself, there's no word. Does anyone have this problem and what do you think?
I was a virgin when I was raped (I got away in the middle of it, but penetration happened) and haven't had sex since. I am so confused about what my status is and what to say when it comes up, etc- it's an identity crisis. I didn't give it up but something physical happened so I don't know? If I don't call myself a virgin then I get mad about what happened and start with flashbacks. I don't know what to call myself, there's no word. Does anyone have this problem and what do you think?
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Ideally when you *do* start having sex, it'll be with someone you trust enough to tell about the rape, but it's up to you to decide when the moment's right for that.
*hugs* here if you want to talk xx
My brother started raping me when I was an infant until I was 5,Would you say I was a virgin?
When I was 9 my cousin raped me,was I still a virgin?
Mentally and emotionally yes I was.
Sometimes you have to seperate the body from the heart and mind.
Rape isn't something we ask for or want or are ready for, EVER.
But it happens,as a teen I was raped 4 more times,and I can tell you that it does create alot of problems sexually.
I hope in your case when the time is right that you will pick someone who really cares about you and would not question for a moment that you had been raped.
And if someone does question that then pass them by,you don't need people like that in your life.