I was raped by my husband numerous times it was a very abusive marriage but in order to move on i did not do anything about the rapes just put them behind me and kept moving forward, even after we split i was told i could report them to the police but i chose not to. A year after all this I moved on and met some one new well long story short they turn out to be the same as my husband and i was raped and abused. This time though I decided to make a stand after finding out he was stalking me. I got my AVO against him the only way I could speed this up was to report the rapes and assaults which i did it took everything I had left emotionally to do this. I have just found out that i should not go ahead with the rape charges as he will get away with it as it is my word against his. What I am trying to figure out is why can i move past what my husband did but just can't find it in me to move beyond what my last partner did and the only difference is I let my ex hubby get away with it but chose to make a stand against my ex partner.
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