Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
went out last night... had sooo much fun. But, I have to say... that I am so sensitive when it comes to things this guy said.. I just flip out (silently) ... I didnt want him to think that I thought anything of what he said...but the thought of being raped again ALWAYS goes thru my mind.
we went to a bunch of bars with my friend evonne. She invited her friend will..he is super nice. But when we were at one bar someone bought me this drink (gave it to me himself)...and immediately I felt dizzy... not that i wasnt already a lil drunk but something in that pushed me... will made a comment that it prolly was a roofie... not that i believe it but still... i couldnt stop thinking about it.
Will knows I have a bf.. and While I was friendly with him and let him put his arm around me (cause it was freezing outside)... He made this comment when I asked if he was gonna stay at evonnes cause I was still drunk and didnt wanna go to bed yet. Just hang out for a while longer.
he said that even though he knows I wouldnt do anything with him that " he cant trust that he wont try to with me" .... Didnt mean anything..im sure he was just flirting...but i still couldnt help but interpret that in a way he didnt mean..i just freak out. I want to be normal again..i dont wanna be reminded of the risk ALL THE TIME.
we went to a bunch of bars with my friend evonne. She invited her friend will..he is super nice. But when we were at one bar someone bought me this drink (gave it to me himself)...and immediately I felt dizzy... not that i wasnt already a lil drunk but something in that pushed me... will made a comment that it prolly was a roofie... not that i believe it but still... i couldnt stop thinking about it.
Will knows I have a bf.. and While I was friendly with him and let him put his arm around me (cause it was freezing outside)... He made this comment when I asked if he was gonna stay at evonnes cause I was still drunk and didnt wanna go to bed yet. Just hang out for a while longer.
he said that even though he knows I wouldnt do anything with him that " he cant trust that he wont try to with me" .... Didnt mean anything..im sure he was just flirting...but i still couldnt help but interpret that in a way he didnt mean..i just freak out. I want to be normal again..i dont wanna be reminded of the risk ALL THE TIME.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
But remember, a lot of rapes can be prevented by actually being paranoid. I know that sounds strange, but anything you can do to protect yourself from another experience is worth it.
Like I said, I would not have said that if I had known you had a bf. That was totally out of line on his part. But guys tend to be totally out of line all the time, so I dunno for sure.
in a way having been victims makes us safer, more aware, but it's devastating that we had to learn it the hard way.
I think that's why it's great to share. If you convince other women to be safer in the places they go and men they trust, then it might prevent something from happening to them. :)