I've thought about it an wished i could do it so many times but i dnt no the bastard that raped me, if i could i'd do it though serves him right why should i suffer because hes a selfish T***. sorry 4 sounding so angry, in a bad mood 2day. take care xxx

I've harbored some very vivid revenge fantasies for the two guys that raped me at 14, as well as for the guy who raped me this past July. I think the only thing that has ever stopped me is the fear that I would be the one to get into trouble, not them. They did enough to make my life difficult and stole so much from me, that I refuse to allow them to steal somethig else from me - like my freedom or, if I were to act on the violent thoughts - what little bit of my soul remained untouched by them.

thanks for responding every1.
Don't get me wrong...I've been on the receiving end of the devastation of a murder so I refuse to even go there ..he's not worth the energy it would take to blow him to hell, period!
He stalked me at work pretending to be friends, and I just want him to know what it feels like to be afraid everywhere you go. I get so angry sometimes I just wish I could announce to every1 what kind of slime-ball the have in their midst, but without it being a crime!
I don't know that's just how I'm feeling right now.

Killing is wrong, but exposing him, that's perfectly okay in my book.

People need their actions to be known, not only so you have some closure, but also, very importantly... so other women know not to trust the monster!

I say go for it, though I would fear he may retaliate if I were you. Still, I think he should be exposed to protect other women from the bastard. You have the power.

And never feel bad for your anger. You have every right to be angry. He trespassed on your body, hurt you, disrespected you, and didn't give a crap! You can be angry! Be angry and know it is right to feel that way. And if you expose him, good girl! Just be careful if he gets angry at you for it. But he totally deserves it.

Yes, all these monsters need to feel what it is like. They need to have their security, their ability to be intimate, their everything taken from them! And it's not wrong to think so. They have proven themselves to be less than even a rabid dog... so they should be treated accordingly.

I'm angry with you.

Over here in Australia a few people have made web sites of abusers / rapests, so in my books its A ok to do, he and you deserves some justice, maybe this could be ann option, do a course on web sites get a book on web sites get a friend to help you design a web site whatever it takes, hay have you thought that he very well might have done this to others as well ????? and if he thinks he's getting away with it well then there's nothing to stop him from doing it to another woman or girl... Exactley why should he get away with it ???? I seriously think everyone thinks of revenge at some point as its a stealing of our saftey and rights, has this been reported ???? do whatever you want to but nothing to get yourself in trouble... Take care will you... xxxoooxxx luv lesley

i do know how you feel i think alot about hurting the man who raped me i get really angry too but then i was stupid because i put up with it for over 6 years.

expose him show every1 wot ez really like i wish i had the guts 2 expose the man who raped me wen i was 14 he'z moved away since then so i dnt no wer he is but i no 1 thing if he had stayed around here he wouldnt be alive 2day as he raped me wen i had a boyfriend n wen i told my now ex boyfriend he went lookin 4 him i jst wish i'd taken him 2 court instead of hidin away 4 2 yrs. do wot u hav 2 do but not physically no matter how temptin its jst as wrong as wot these men hav done 2 us expose these b*****ds xxxx

By "I'm angry with you" I meant I am angry along with you. Sorry if I made it sound like I was mad AT you. =P I'd never be angry at you.

I think everyone should exhibit a certain level of vigilantism. No killing or anything, of course, but some people deserve some things.

Go for it....

i fully understand athis because i battered the shit out of my rapist but this is over 10 years after it happened. facing your fears takes a ton of courage

A friend of mine works at a child sexual abuse/rape counseling place. She has to work with the police and justice system a lot. She's always said thta when the justice system has completely let you down and your rapist/abuser hasn't received any punishment for what they've done, it's totally okay to punish him yourself. Not physically, of course, beacause that'd be bringing on more problems for yourself, but you can go around and tell people what he did. She says you can go to his place of work and tell their boss, maybe getting them fired. You can't r*pe them back but she says you CAN make them pay in other ways.