Rape Support Group

If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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finally just going to tell my story

deleted_user
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Well, after writing it all down. I was afraid to post it on here. What if it is to iffy. Like if some child read it. So I will give you the choice to read it. I tell my story. It is a long one. It is not that bad probably rated pg13. But, well if you would like to read it. And this is my first time telling it. I would like to here your thoughts on if you think it was or not... RAPE.
You can find my story one my profile under a journel entry posted with Nov.6th and titled. Rated Rape....
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm on my way to read it now... Good on you for having the courage to share.
Thriver
Thriver
You did a good job of painting the scene. Yes, you were raped. In the same way that many of us were - a date rape. I'm not sure when this became a term, but it is a good one. Describes that you were not raped at gunpoint, but were raped by someone you thought was not a danger.
I guess your H does not know what happened to you - are you planning to tell him?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I want to that you all so much... So many replys that helped me come to a conclusion and take a lot of weight off my shoulders. I commented on that same journel a reply I would like all that replied to read. As for my husband. I explained to him that my first time was in the rain, in a yard, drunk with me telling him to get off. I also told him the funnier points of the story. I did not make it a big deal and sometimes I wonder if he realizes that I was serious. He mentioned that it sounded like rape but I just said we were both too drunk. My husband is younger than me. I am 31 he is 25. He has the mind of a 17 year old though. I love him for that. He is just as silly as I am. I dont think he could ever understand what it was really like for me even if I tried to make him. He is a very loving husband. We get along great. I think really I can just keep it that way by not rehashing it. That is why I needed a site like this.. Thank you all and prayers for you too.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm going to read it after I write this but I just wanted to say, this is what this site is for. To put all your emotions, experiences, thoughts, and actions out there. Nothing is to graphic, horrible, or "iffy" because if it's happened to you it's in one way or another happened to someone else that is dieing inside because they are too afraid their situation is too horrible to tell and will burden others with the surfacing of it! We are here to help lighten that burden and connect strings of strength to your soul to help and pull you up. Please, never be afraid that any idea, thought, or emotion is to dark, abstract, demonic, scary, misunderstood or rare to share, because 9 times out of 10 someone else has felt that or is feeling that and all they pray for at night is for someone to relate to.
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