
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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I may be a gay man but I am not promiscuous, I cannot help but think that I somehow deserved what happened to me because I was drunk. If I had been sober, maybe I could have fought harder... I feel so guilty and ashamed...
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I was drugged. Does that mean I asked for it? NO. Unfortunately, though, I wasn't given quite enough, so I still remember a lot of what happened. It was horrible and uncalled for.
Being drunk is not asking for it. Even if you WERE promiscuous, it's not asking for it. You fought as hard as you could. You lost the battle, but you can still win the war. You have nothing to feel guilty or ashamed about....but I DO understand those feelings. I still feel that way after fifteen years.
Hang in there.
Do you think that if someone came up and started to rape that person, that this would seem ok to you?
Rape is unthinkable. There is no possible justification for it. Maybe if you were not drunk, or if you worked out more, or if you had taken that self defense course, you would have been able to fight off your attacker. So what? Attackers are justified in attacking people who cannot fight them off? what kind of sick society would condone that?
No one desrves to go through that!!! I was drunk and got kncocked out by one of my bfs at the time Mates I didn't ask for it!!!!
DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF IN ANYWAY!!!!
Whether or not you slept around or not doesn't mean someone had the right to do waht they did to you!!
Reen xx