
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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It is early days and I have only just spoken to my mum today (although she has known since the weekend what happened to me. I feel like she does not believe me. Her main concerns seem to lie in the fact that I was drunk ( I already accept that had I not been, it may not have happened, but I REFUSE to feel to blame for what the bastard did) which is not helping me with the feelings of guilt. I have been signed off of work for 2 weeks and that seems to have been met with disapproval too. I feel like I've told her about a drunken kiss that I regret and am making a big thing out of it. Has anyone ever experienced a similar response from their parents?
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It's not your fault, don't let it be turned that way, remind her of what you need right now, and if she can't put her feelings aside and be that for you then that is how she is failing you.