Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
I tired to take the guys that did it to me to court but their parents pretty much own the town. I am not the only girl that he has done this to because i have met them. I hate that i lost the case because of his parents because there was evidence not only the brusing and the sperm but there were wounds that will never allow me to have a child. I dont have justice. No one cares this happened to me. I am nothing at all.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I truley believe that what comes around goes around and what you do will always catch up with you. maybe I need to believe that the guy who raped me is suffering his own hell and good. Try and focus on you and your needs and how you can care for yourself
Take care
Deb.
You still get a big pat on the back for being brave enough to stand up for yourself. Way to go!
You were very courageous and amazing to carry it through. It wasn't for nothing. It was for YOURSELF.
I mentioned my 80 year old aunt in a previous post. She was raped by her brother-in-law. She also went to court, but his family, like you, also owned half the town. Of course, it was like in the 1940's and it was a small town. She was pregnant from that rape, had a child at 15, and raised him. But the beauty of it was, the rapist and his family with all their money and "gold"...... lost it. EVERY PENNY. He pretty much had nothing left to his name years later.
So yes, what goes around comes around. you just keep on walking. Keep taking those steps towards healing and leave his ass behind. He's not worth you're even glancing in his direction. YOU know what happened and HE knows what happened. HE has to live with it................. you don't. Well, you do, but how you choose to live with it is your own choice. Hopefully it will be a choice of hope and moving on.