
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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It only happened twice, but..
In June of 08 my boyfriend and I were having sex and I broke down during sex. Crying like a baby, begging him to stop. I don't know what happened.
Then, a few days ago it happened again.
I was having sex with my boyfriend and out of nowhere I started crying so hard. Crying as if I've been bottleing up things for years
I just couldn't calm down until abou two hours later.
I want to have sex with my boyfriend with out feeling pain from the past.
Does this happen to anyone else?
...How do I make it stop?:(
In June of 08 my boyfriend and I were having sex and I broke down during sex. Crying like a baby, begging him to stop. I don't know what happened.
Then, a few days ago it happened again.
I was having sex with my boyfriend and out of nowhere I started crying so hard. Crying as if I've been bottleing up things for years
I just couldn't calm down until abou two hours later.
I want to have sex with my boyfriend with out feeling pain from the past.
Does this happen to anyone else?
...How do I make it stop?:(
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If you can't say it's more difficult, and I think most people would assume it was something to do with them. But, if but you could say something line, "I'm sorry, it's not your or us. It's something from the past, but I'm not ready to talk" that may help (though I think most guys would have a fairly good idea what that "something" was).
Either way, you're not a freak, and it's okay to cry.
There is nothing wrong with crying but help your partner to help you by letting him know that it's not him that is hurting you or upsetting you - try and talk to him about bits of your experieces, don't have to go into every detail, just let him know you're working through abuse/rape issues and this may happen once in a while and it's not his fault
Cant really say I was triggered by one specific thing like I have been before (i.e. hands around my neck, or to much force) I just out of the blue jumped off, yes off which is even more puzzling and started crying =( ugh I dont understand it either