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Is it true that someone who is abused becomes attracted to other abusers?
deleted_user
What a question ? I think that we never know what a person is capable of doing and that abusers are masters of grooming , emotional blackmail etc to satisfy there own need for sexual pleasure , power and control . I hope you are ok and this helps answer the question you have in your head >. take care
Gidzmo
I think that an abuser will find a way in, a way that makes the other person feel good. Then the abuser works on that till the other's defenses are down enough.
deleted_user
Hi Jonathan. It can happen that some people that are abused can become attracted to their abusers or other people that exhibit some of the same signs and characteristics as their abusers. But in any case it is not healthy.
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