I found a video tape hidden in my fiances office about one month ago. I watched it. It was of hime raping me on four seperate occasions while I was passed out. They all occurred before we got engaged. He knows I know. And he knows I have the video. I have since moved in with my parents and he paid for two weeks of intensive therapy for me. And is seeing a therapist himself. I hired an attorney this week to pursue him civally. He has admitted it was rape and wants us to stay together. I don't know if he really wants this or just says it so I won't turn him in. I know in my heart that I could never be with him. I'm having flashbacks of watching the video, night terrors, body pains, unable to eat, and intrusive thoughts. I was just wondering if anyone has had anything simalar happen to them. And want as much advice as I can get. Thankyou.
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