My new girlfriend and I started dating about 3 months ago.One night while we were chatting on line she e-mailed me a letter explainig why she wants to take it slow.In the letter she revealed to me that she was a victim of rape in college,10 yrs ago.Now I have known many women who have been raped but I have never dated anyone who has gone through that experience.I would like some advice as to how do I show her that I will not hurt her in any way shape or form?I have told her several times that I don't intend to hurt ter but I'm of the belief that actions speak louder than words,but it seems that some of the things I want to do like send her flowers everyday at work,bring her lunch,stuff like that,the guy that raped her did all those things and I don't want her to think that is going to happen again.I care about this woman VERY,VERY,DEEPLY. So if you can give me some advice it and some insight it would be greatly appreciated.Thanks in advance,Wulfgar
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