So I was raped about four years ago, by a guy I considered a friend. Sadly I was a virgin at the time and for a really long time I blamed myself, told myself I asked for it. Im older and slightly wiser now and while it's affected me in ways I can barely comprehend I do realize it wasn't actually my fault. Here is the thing this is always something I have hidden form everyone and Im wondering if it's something I should tell the people I care about such as family or super close friends. I haven't really dealt with it in the normal since, I mean this is the first time Ive ever spoken out loud about it. Im just not sure that its worth it to tell anyone else or would it just be yet another burden they just have to bare and never have the ability to fix.
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