
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

deleted_user
i am in australia doing a years work experience. i am originally from england. i have been dating a guy for about two months now, and we had been sleeping together. but he raped me and i told someone i thought of as a friend and she said it cant be rape if hes my boyfriend. i feel violated and petrified and alone. all the people i am friends with here, i know through him. i want to go home more than anything in the world but that just isnt possible right now.
he is acting like nothing happened. i dont know what to do.
help me please.
he is acting like nothing happened. i dont know what to do.
help me please.

deleted_user
Just because he's your boyfriend does not mean he is entitled to have sex with you whenever he fancies. If you did not want to have sex with him, but he proceeded anyway, that's rape. I don't know what you should do though. It's like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. Sorry I'm not more help. If you need to talk feel free to message me.

realitychick
Yes it was rape. Just because he is the boyfriend does not give him the right to take it when ever he thinks he wants it or thinks that he needs it. If he truely loved you he would respect our wishes and our feelings. Ok is there any way you can change groups or ask for a leave of absent. You need to go to the diretor of the work experience and see if they can help you figure something out hope that helps

deleted_user
help has come from the most unlikeliest place. i now have money in my back account and i have booked a flight home on friday. i cant do this on my own. and the strangest thing is, that this rape has bought me back in touch with my mum who i hadnt spoken to for a while. it makes what we fell out about seem trivial. i have 2 days to get through now...
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