
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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I am a 22 year old male. I found out last night that my younger sister has been raped in the past.
I dont know how i can help, or if i can. Im so sick. It happened 3 times over her life. She has been dealing with this in silence since the first assault.. when she was 6 (shes 19 now). She was also assaulted later in high school.
I dont know what to do. She doesnt know i know. I love her so much. It burns such a sick dark in my stomach to know that shes been dealing with this alone for so long. My parents and my sister currently have the worst relationship ive ever seen. They fight constantly.
I know she doesnt trust them. In frustration about the lack of communication my parents had resorted to reading her journals (that she has kept for years).
I need help
I dont know what to do
I want to support her but i dont know how
I want to protect her but i dont know if i can
I want to find the sick bastards who did that to her but i am so terriefied of what i would do.
I NEED to find the man who assaulted her at such a young age. I am so terrified that he is still out there hurting little girls.
What do i do
Im scared she'll withdraw even more if she finds out i know
Im so scared
I dont know what to do, please, I love my sister so much
Here is my email... Please reply if you can help in anyway
carmichaelbp@assiniboine.net
I dont know how i can help, or if i can. Im so sick. It happened 3 times over her life. She has been dealing with this in silence since the first assault.. when she was 6 (shes 19 now). She was also assaulted later in high school.
I dont know what to do. She doesnt know i know. I love her so much. It burns such a sick dark in my stomach to know that shes been dealing with this alone for so long. My parents and my sister currently have the worst relationship ive ever seen. They fight constantly.
I know she doesnt trust them. In frustration about the lack of communication my parents had resorted to reading her journals (that she has kept for years).
I need help
I dont know what to do
I want to support her but i dont know how
I want to protect her but i dont know if i can
I want to find the sick bastards who did that to her but i am so terriefied of what i would do.
I NEED to find the man who assaulted her at such a young age. I am so terrified that he is still out there hurting little girls.
What do i do
Im scared she'll withdraw even more if she finds out i know
Im so scared
I dont know what to do, please, I love my sister so much
Here is my email... Please reply if you can help in anyway
carmichaelbp@assiniboine.net
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