
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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The fact that I often feel ashamed to be of the male gender just goes to show how pathetic the world has become.
Today, men feel that to be a "man," you must objectify women, have no emotional reactions, get into fights, watch porn, etc., and sleep around with many women. This absolutely ridiculous standard is what leads to rape, and these idiots feel it makes them more manly to have dominated women. Well, they didn't dominate anyone, they just reduced themselves to animals.
There's a good reason I rarely make friends with men. That reason is because I am disgusted and disappointed in what the majority of them are or have become. Even those who do care about women, most of them hide that care, as to keep from being picked on by other men for being "emotional."
I despise what they have done to you all. I feel sometimes that I, myself, am at fault at times, though I've never harmed a girl, and never would. I know that's not true, but I hate that I share anything in common with them.
I just want you to know that I don't give a damn what other men think of me. Their code isn't how to be a man, it's how to be an ANIMAL. Real men care for their sisters. Real men love, feel emotions, and care about one another, and the women in their lives. So I don't care what these animals think of me, or whether they reject me for being different. Sometimes, most times, different is better.
Never forget that those who did this to you have proved they are not men at all, but animals. But in all of you, I know you are better than they are. Knowing what they did fills me with such anger, along with such sadness.
I love and care about you all.
Today, men feel that to be a "man," you must objectify women, have no emotional reactions, get into fights, watch porn, etc., and sleep around with many women. This absolutely ridiculous standard is what leads to rape, and these idiots feel it makes them more manly to have dominated women. Well, they didn't dominate anyone, they just reduced themselves to animals.
There's a good reason I rarely make friends with men. That reason is because I am disgusted and disappointed in what the majority of them are or have become. Even those who do care about women, most of them hide that care, as to keep from being picked on by other men for being "emotional."
I despise what they have done to you all. I feel sometimes that I, myself, am at fault at times, though I've never harmed a girl, and never would. I know that's not true, but I hate that I share anything in common with them.
I just want you to know that I don't give a damn what other men think of me. Their code isn't how to be a man, it's how to be an ANIMAL. Real men care for their sisters. Real men love, feel emotions, and care about one another, and the women in their lives. So I don't care what these animals think of me, or whether they reject me for being different. Sometimes, most times, different is better.
Never forget that those who did this to you have proved they are not men at all, but animals. But in all of you, I know you are better than they are. Knowing what they did fills me with such anger, along with such sadness.
I love and care about you all.
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I also don't hate men. I just hate the supposed and I guess real power they have over us. Meaning the white man in society or even physically. They shouldn't take advantage of that.
I think there may be more good men out there than we may think. Sadly, I think that most of them hide it due to the insults they would get from other men.
I wasn't always so caring of women, but something happened in my life, something I never tell anyone, and due to it, I gained a perspective on life that I thank God for. Now He gave me the ability to love and cherish my many sisters, all of you here on DS.
So, remember it was always them at fault, and nothing you did "made" them do it.
Heck, I'm mentally ill, and though my mental illnesses make me paranoid, I still never claim that I "can't" stop believing the paranoia. :)
Responsibility is something that today's society needs. We blame those who do not have blame, and do not put the blame where it should be.
Thank you all for the compliments. I appreciate it, but remember, I'm here for you guys, not to feel good for what you say about me. =P I still appreciate it, though. I'm happy with who I have become. The past me, is no longer the present me.
God bless you all.
Thank you for saying I could never be one of them. I'd rather be anything but them.
where is their self respect?