Hello all :) I'm pregnant with my first child, I'm 16 weeks along. I'm realy happy about the baby and everything and my husband and I planned it, but now it seems like he wants nothing to do with any of the pregnancy stuff and it's kinda breaking my heart. He still goes off drinking and leaves me here alone. He has cut the drinking back, but at least once a week he's going out getting seriously plowed and coming home staggering drunk hours later than he said he would be. When I talk about the baby he seems to ignore most of what I say, or show no emotion at all in his response. This is not how I pictured it, Sometimes I just feel like my baby and I are alone. I cry at least once a day because he'll snap at me about something stupid, or because he's not giving me any attention. I feel like I need him now more than ever and he's just not there for me. I've even tried talking to him about it, and he acts all sorry and then nothing changes. Anyone else gone through this?
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