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What should I do about my evil sister-in-law?

LovelySnow11
LovelySnow11
My sister-in-law is still up to her old ways, trying to make me feel bad & being a huge bitch. I posted the pictures of my ultrasounds on myspace & on the one that shows he is a boy she wrote a comment saying "HAHA good luck w/ that hopefully he doesn't spray you in the face when he gets here. lol" I deleted it because I thought it was distasteful and rude but she just ended up leaving another one saying "Cruz' wiener is bigger." That is her son who is almost 4 months old. It really hurts my feelings that no matter what she has to try to bring me down. Why does she have to say such rude and tasteless things???? Do you all think I should delete that comment too? Should I take that picture off of myspace? Should I say something to her? And if so what? She is leaving Colorado today and will be here on Sunday so I don't want there to be a lot of drama. Please any advice would be greatly appreciated because I just don't know how to handle her.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wow. What a bitch. I agree with the rude and tasteless part for sure. I don't think you should delete your pictures - I'm sure there are other friends out there who want to see them! But if you don't want to be reminded of her comments, I would delete the one that's up there. What does your DH have to say about all this? Is it his sister? I understand you now wanting to have drama, but you can't let this kind of stuff go on. I have a similar situation, though not quite as bad with a rude sister in law and I've told my husband (it's his sister) the next time she says or does something regarding me and this pregnancy that I will speak to her in an adult manner and tell her that it's hurting my feelings and not appreciated. Good luck! Let me know what happens.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i had a problem kinda like yours it was my boyfriend brother girlfriend they been together for two years she the one who introduted me to my boyfriend we were friend when we were younger but anyway after i found out i was pregnent she flipped out she was very upset cause this is my boyfriend first child and also the first in his family she told me if i have a girl she would kill all thing of us guess what i am having a GIRL i find it funny she bitches to everyone about me making up stuff and everything it was more annoying then anything but now there nothing to worry about cause they broke up so my advice to you is ingore it she just probaby jealous and you have way to many other thing to worry about then you dumb sister inlaw you going to have a wonderful little boy soon and he need all of you so just delete the comment be pleasent and ingore her stupidity cause in the end it will all be ok
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would just delete her comments since I have that option on myspace. Don't bother deleting the ultrasound photos, thats your personal blog afterall. I would suggest to take what she says with a pinch of salt and watch your health, its not worth it over react towards such people. If you do, they will be the winner.
deleted_user
deleted_user
on myspace you can make it where everything is private to just friends. if she is not on your friends list then fix it to where only friends can see htings. you can do that under account settings i believe it is. hope this is hepfull
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sounds like she is jelous that you are stilling the spotling. Her baby is going to have to share the spotlight with your baby. My sister and I are both pregnant and it is going well. But every time someone talks about babies and getting pregnant, our sister in-law who has already had a 2 year old thinks every one is talking about her. She thinks that they are hinting to her to have a baby. She has been wanting another baby for a while now. She is just driving me and my sister crazy. It is our turn to have the spotlight.
deleted_user
deleted_user
She sound like a bad minded bitch. There is a space at the end of this page which say report abuse. Shes being abusive to you and sound jeouse or conpetative. Contact someone who runs the website and reprt her hopefully she will get banned. Try not to think about her and focus on positive things happy thoughts. And i would cut her out of my life. I did with my brother being around him made me ill. He drains my other brother when he goes to see him i don't ring him see him and feel alot better now. Its as though he has always been jelous of my achievements in life however small.

TOtally ignore her when your around her just laugh at her either in your head or aloud.
Shai
Shai
set your comment level to private. that way, the comment won't be posted unless you accept it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My god, how nasty is she!!! thats just awful. Ive got my scan pictures on my bebo page and no1 has left me any nasty comments. I definetly think u should ask h what her problem is. Maybe shes just jealous? I wouldnt let it worry you though, its not worth makin yourself ill over someone who is obviously very immature and childish!! Take care!! And i hope if you do confront her you dont get 2 much hassel!! xxx
deleted_user
deleted_user
Delete her from your myspace. You need only postive people in your life. I have a big mouth and would say something to her. Congrats on your little boy. That is fabulous news.
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