do you not get on with your mum? i really want to know if the way my mum is behaving is normal cos i really dont think it is and im actually quite worried. all during my pregnancy she has bought things for the baby but not actually been around to help me despte the fact that iv had some really bad complications. i found out i had a heart condition and 2 days after she foned me at 11:30pm and started having a go at me for telling my friends and family about it. the day after that she caused really big arguments with my sister over a toilet roll and kicked her out and then rang me and told me i was to let my sister live on the streets cos it would teach her not to gob off when all she did was say "why are you causing arguments over a toilet roll bein left on the side instead of on the dispenser!" i was told this by several people who were in the house at the same time. since then she has done nothing but try and stress me out and cause problems for me at the hospital and with my benefits. last night my little brother who was also living with me came home from her house with a really bad attitude and me and my partner decided that at this late stage of the pregnancy i dont need it and told him to go back to my mums for the night and that we would talk about it the next day. he is 17. she then foned me at 2am and told me that she was keeping him there for 2 months and that i wasnt welcome down at her house and wasnt allowed to see any of my siblings who still live at home. she then demanded that any benefit i get abckpaid for having him goes to her. i am owed about 1000 from tax credits and have spent nealry 2000 buying him clothes, a phone, a new bed etc and could really do with the money to put back into my house. she sed that if i dont give her it she will fone social services on me and have my baby taken away from me even if she has to lie. i really dont understand why she is doing all this especially as since i fell pregnant i have actually tried to stay away from her as we always end up arguin about something and i didnt need that and have looked after my bro and sis with no complaints. i ahve tried talking to her on the fone and she puts it down on me, i went down today to talk to her and she foned the police on me saying i was threatining to smash her windows and kill her!!! are other mums like this and does anyone have a clue what im supposed to do? il hand over the money no problem even tho i need it just to make sure she doesnt take my baby but im worried that she will fone social services anyway. im a good person and dont have any criminal convictions but im worried nonetheless. mainly about her state of mind. any clues as to what i should do?
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