ok so first of all sorry cuz this will probably not be the shortest discussion. Here's what's going on...my sister has had two kids and both of them have been c-sections. I lived with my sister when I was 17 and during one of our many heart to heart late night sister conversations she mentioned how she was sad that she hadn't gotten to have a vaginal birth and that because she's had two if she had any more kids she would have to have c-sections as well. She mentioned that she would really like to be there when someone had a vaginal birth since she missed out on it. At that point I decided that I would do whatever I had to to have her there when I had my child so I could give that to her. The problem is she lives in California an I live in Oregon. I really want to do everything naturally, from waiting for the baby to come when it wants to doing my best not to have an epidural and whatever else. Anyway, I just spoke with her to see what we would do and how long it would take her to get to Oregon and I am in shock at what she said. She is trying to force me to have an induction when it's convenient for her to come to Oregon for her to be here. She wants to book the flight now and have me schedule my induction. I'm not even 15 weeks yet. And on top of that, we decided to wait to find out the sex of our child and she told me I have to find out now so that SHE can make plans and then told me not to be selfish. I love my sister very much and am trying to do something nice for her, but I don't know how to stand up enough for what I want for me and my baby for her to not keep trying to push me around but to not be completely rude either. Again, sorry this is so long, but I would really appreciate any advice on this. Thanks
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