Okay last time I checked usually you get a baby shower while your pregnant with your first and you do cake and fun little games and small gifts. Its like a mini get together for the pregnant mama to be right? Well is it wrong for me to feel upset that my Mom doesnt want to do one until 2 months after my daughter is born and I am all fat and flabby, not pregnant and basically instead of calling it a "baby shower" it will more so be a meet and greet for their friends....I am so upset by this. I really was excited to have a baby shower and now thats not going to happen and with my family all there 2 months after its not going to be fun, I know its going to be more about what I am doing wrong with the baby and how I "should" be doing things. Its not about me and the baby and they are going to want to play pass the baby. Do you all think I have a right to be upset that I am not getting a baby shower because my parents would rather do a meet and greet after she is born, so that the great grandparents can meet her (thats all who would be there to) and my mom is a totally different person around her mom, they go off in their own corner and dont socialize with anyone and so my hubby and I are there to sit until we get to the extreme boredom point and I make an excuse like I am tired and need to go home to get some rest. Errrr its so upsetting to me. Why should my pregnancy be any different then anyone elses. I mean come on who has heard of a baby shower 2 months after the baby is born and then lets call it a meet and greet and have it be with no party just family coming over to pass the baby. I dont know maybe I am just over reacting but I see everyones baby shower pictures and they look so fun and its something I think every mo looks forward to and I'm not getting one.
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