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I did my 20 week ultrasound on the 18th of Oct. I found out Im having a girl.. ever since i found this out Ive been having nightmares. I get at least 4 a night & they all revolve around her hating me as she grows up & me not being a good mom & not knowing how to care for her or being able to give her what she needs... does anyone know how to stop these dreams? I only ever had good dreams about the pregnancy until i found out the sex... someone plz help.... i feel like there something wrong with me..
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I am afraid to say...they probably will be there until your end of pregnancy. I have bad dreams too. Well, not like yours but I have consecutive dreams to where I give birth and I am holding my son and it turns out he is really a girl. I don't know why because I want a little boy. My doctor says they are just our subconscious fears coming out in our sleep and it is perfectly normal. I know that doesn't help or make them go away, but maybe now you know why...I just want you to know you are not alone and you are perfectly normal...there is nothing wrong with you. Hang in there and if you need to talk I am here. :)
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I'm sorry you're having these dreams :o( Unfortunately, I don't think there is aything you can do to stop them. If you're not getting enough sleep at night, I would try taking a Tylenol PM and seeing if that doesn't help you sleep better. Good luck and I hope you get some rest soon!
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I've heard that you tend to dream about what you think about while you fall asleep. Try clearing your mind and focusing on something else. It might help. But either way, don't worry there is nothing wrong with you and I'm sure your daughter will love you!
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thnx u all for ur advice... it is much appreciated.
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