First of all, congrats on keeping your baby, it is such a wonderful thing becoming a mom :) Second, do not take your life, if you are really that depressed please talk to someone immedialtely. Being pregnant is not an easy thing, especially with all of the hormonal changes going on right now. Do you have family or friends that can help? There are also organizations that can help. Also, no matter what, your boyfriend is obligated by law to pay child support and help out with the baby's needs. If he denies the baby is his, you can get a DNA test done. If you can't afford one, there is a talk show called "Maury" that does those all of the time. Please talk to someone and take care of yourself. It will get better and we are all here for you :)

Things will get better babe and if this is the way he wants to act, then you're better off without him. I know thats hard to hear and you won't believe it because of the way you're feeling at the moment but its true. To tell you the truth though, he's probably just s**t scared at the moment and finding it hard to sink in. Like skylark said, he IS obligated to pay child support, whether he likes it or not, too bad. If he was willing to have sex in the first place, then this is what he was risking and he's just gunna have to do some growing up and face the consequences. You might find babe that he'll eventually come around when he realizes this is really happening. Till then, remember you have the support of everyone here, and you're family will help you through this. ps - does HIS family know about this? Maybe if you let them know someone there will knock some sense into him!

Having a baby at 18 is scary as hell, i know, my baby is due next saturday!

You're going to be just fine though girl, and do get help about the way you're feeling at the moment, stressing like this isn't good for you or baby. This guy isn't right for you though if this is how he's acting.

Once you calm yourself, you'll be able to realize that. You're obviously a stronger better person than him at 17 than he is at 20 years old!! Thats impressive girl!

You're going to do just fine i'm sure of it. I'm here if you ever wanna message me or anything, being the same age it might help?

Take care and trust in the love of God and your family through this hard time. xoxox

i have been a single parent and you can do this on your own. it doesnt seem that way alot but when i got real depressed one time i had a guy tell me if my mom can raise 3 kids be deaf mute and do it without child support you can do this. we had more resources than they had then.

i applaud your choice not to get an abortion. that makes you more mature than him and god will bless you for that choice. if you need to talk im here. granted im older but you can do this.

Hi there and first off congrats! Having a baby is such a blessing and will be the highlight of your life from here on out. Now on to the messy stuff.

I also applaud you for not having an abortion. This baby of your did ask to be concieve and right now you are it's only support. If your boyfriend isn't going to support you in the hard times then better he leave now than fool you for years with love and joy only to show his true colors later.

You do not need him...you want him...big difference. Men come and go...and those who will stay around will prove themselves. So the difference is that you want your boyfriend...the one who want to ruin your life...the one who has brought life to your little one. Is this is type of man you really want? When you make that list of things you want your husband one day to be is this really what you would list? someone who doesn't support you, brings you down, and cares so little about his own child and so much about him? Really? Your child on the other hand needs you. Without you she cannot breath, eat, or grow? You will be there to love and support him or her in good and bad. You have unconditional love for this baby...something your boyfriend obviously doen't have for you or the baby.

You deserve better...your baby deserves better...you must learn to demand better! I will keep you both in my prayers. Keep us informed!

First of all congrats on the being pregnant :] Question tho: Do you want to keep the baby? Personally iam 100% against abortion but if your boyfriend didnt want a baby then he shouldnt of had sex. I hate when guys do that >< hey have sex and then decide after they find out that their girlfriend is pregnant that they dont want the child,personally i think that is fucked up!!! >< It makes me so angry!!! If you know for sure that the baby is his then i dont know why he is denying it,thats fucked up too!!! >< Hey please cheer up i dont know you but i dont want you taking your life and your childs. If he has that kind of reaction and you cant get him to change his mind then you dont even need to be around him because he is just going to bring you down and if you wanted a child then all you need is too be happy right now. I hope i helped in some way or another. Will you add me as a friend? Oh by the way my AIM screen name is Randomgirl0507 if you ever wanna talk to me on there. Well,hope to talk to you some other time. Bye. :]

A baby will be one of the biggest blessings in your life. I am a student doing research on pregnant women online but i have a close friend that is young and went through a pregnancy "alone" recently. Your posting really touched me. Although you may feel that you are alone right now you are not. you have your family and friends. Going through this pregnancy will be hard and at times you may regret it but those will be greatly outweighed by the times that you feel the incredible love of and for your baby. It is hard to be getting over a boy (and he is a boy because he is being immature) at this stressful time but it will be worth it. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason and you will be a better and stronger person after this stressful time. Good luck! and if you need to talk to anyone (i know you don't know me but i am close you your age) don't hesitate to message me.

I've been working with single pregnant/moms for the last 17 months, and while it isn't the same as having a partner in your life, there are tons of agencies out there to help you. From WIC to support groups for single moms...look into your community, state, and federal resources. Also, have a DNA test done and force this boy to behave like a man, he absolutely has to help you...
I am 6.5 months pregnant right now, and it is an amazing experience! Please stay in touch, and let me know if there is anything I can do to help you!

I know this will be difficult for you hunni but trust me as soon as this lil person pops out you will never regret your decision, there is alot of help out there for single mums and to be honest sweetheart you are better off without this guy, im sure you have all the love and support off your parents so leave him to his childish anticts, you will gain so much independance and later on will wonder why you ever got upset about this guy, best of luck to you hunni xx

I understand your upset and depressed. But if you keep letting your emotions stress you out, you will definitely have a miscarriage. Now if he's being a a**hole about the pregnancy then you just do what you have to do for you and your baby. If you really wanna keep this baby then you need to occupy your time to the point where you don't have time to think about him at all. Change your number if you have to. And try to spend time with close friends to help you throught this tought time. You have 6 months to go and it's not gonna be easy.

I wouldnt exactly say she will definatly have a miscarriage due to stress. i agree you should keep stress levels to a minimum and try to focus on your next move, but i think telling her stress will give her a miscarriage will just stress her out even more. sorry to be so opinionated but to each is own i supose. best of luck to you anyway hunni x

Im galde your keep the baby it is hard when the father of the baby reacts so badly. I know how you feel because my oldest sons father reacted the very same way and i proved him wrong it is hard bringing a baby up on your own but im sure all your friends and family will help you loads. I think boys always react so badly when you tell them your pregnant maybe in time he will calm down and come to his senses.Just take care of yourself and remember stress isnt good for you or the bay.