I am having a hard time dealing with my mother-in-law. Dont get me wrong I love her, but she is driving me crazy with unwanted advice. I am 19 weeks pregnant with my first child and I feel like she is trying to take control of everything. I am not sure of what to do about her. I have spoke with my husband about how she makes me feel but he is no help. The further along I get the more pushing she does. She makes all kinds of comments on what I need to do and talks about how she cant wait until HER baby gets here. The last time I checked it was MY baby. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with her without starting a war?