My MIL is completely driving me insane!!!!! I don't know what to do with her anymore. Here's my story. When I found out I was preggers with my first child she dispised me, thought I got preggers on purpose (I was 19 he was 20, still both living at home and in college) just to "trap" my husband (BF at the time). Well needless to say I didn't and was in total shock at the whole situation myself, I even thought he would leave me. She never even spoke to me until I was about 8 mo along. After I had my daughter she turned into my best friend, until I realized she just liked being around because people thought my daughter was hers and she wouldn't correct them!!!! After the "newness" of the baby wore off, she was back at hating me. She treats me like total crap all of the time. When we decided we were going to try for another child, she actually tried to tell us when we were allowed to try. She told us we had to wait until June to conceive. Well I got pregnant in March (ha ha in your face), she was pissed. I had several medical problems with this pregnancy and she says it's because I needed to exercise more. The problems I had were not even remotely close to being fitness related (I had blood clots and was told I was lucky to be alive). Then she tried to tell me I had to name this baby Ashley if it was a girl because she wanted to name her daughter Ashley but didn't. I said well if it's a boy we are going to call him Nicholas, her response "NO, I don't think so you are going to have to pick another name". WHAT???!!! Who does this lady think she is? Well I am having a girl and naming her Emily, no comments on that yet. But most recently she decided we are going on a family vacation next year, just what I need the stress of worrying about a vacation. We are struggling as it is trying to pay for the nursery decor and all the items we need for the new baby and getting all the stuff our daughter needs for school, let alone try to come up with $2000 for a vacation. Plus the vaca spot is 17 hours away. I told her I can't take a 6mo old on a 17 hr car ride.....she screams back "THE BABY WILL BE 7MO OLD AND YES YOU CAN!" I think thats up to me to decide! My husband seems to think I'm over reacting when I say this woman is trying to make us get divorced. I am sick of being treated like total crap by this menapausal bitch! I even tried yelling back at her it worked for a while, but now she has a new weapon she tells my husband. She told him I yelled at her for no reason and made her cry, she don't understand why I have to be so mean to her sometimes..........Well she told me I shouldn't have eaten a cookie after dinner because I was going to become one of those fat pregnant ladies who eat junk all day and they are gross. Well what did she want me to say, "oh thanks for reminding me not to be a fat pregnant lady"??? I mean come on ladies, ain't nothing wrong with some cookies after dinner. LOL I just don't know what to do anymore and think maybe I need to talk to my husband about what's going to happen between us if she doesn't stop. Oh and they only live up the street so that makes it worse. Sorry so long I just needed to get it out.
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