Well first let me start out by saying that this isnt just once or twice but all the time. Everytime I call my mom she will tell me how busy she is and she cant talk to me and to call her in a few hours or the next day and I live 3 hours away from her and barely see her but would like to have a better relationship with her so I tell he ok and I call my Grandma and talk to her for like 5 minutes and lowel and behold she is calling my Grandma and my Grandma wont answer because everytime she calls she complains about something or only wants to talk about her and if you cant handle that she hangs up well she did it again today but this time I was taling to my Grandpa and he answered her and told he I have to call back later my mom was calling and I told him what she just said to me and he got mad at me. My Grandma lives 1500 miles away and she is more a mother figure then anything she was the first one to come after my DD was born my mom didnt come over till my DD was almost 3 months old because she was mad at me for nameing my DD Aida(Ida) I mean come on what did I do? I mean but if my mom calls and I dont answer or I am busy I am a SB and she says where were you what where you doing with my Granddaughter and treathened to take her away from me because I took her to Guatemala to vist my husband,s mom and has told me I never should have had childern I feel like I am a better mom then she ever was she always treated me like crap compared to my little brother and told my Grandma I never wanted a little girl I look at my beautiful DD and think I never could think that she is my pride and joy I was told I wouldnt have childern and I concieved her naturally and she is my miracle but she acts as if my daughter is hers and it seems she gets jealous when I talk to my grandmother and tells me who can and can not see my DS after he is born I mean am I going crazy?
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