My husband left me. We've been married for 4 years and decided to get pregnant together. When he found out it was a girl he was upset, did act like a butt, but he got over it. I found out that he lied to me about seeing an old girlfriend at a concert he claimed he was going by himself with and i found pictures on facebook with him there with her and her friends...all girls and he knew they were going...he has had his ex's phone number for a while. I was working that night...so its not like i could have gone with him and i didnt want him to not go because it was a band he really likes. I even asked him if he saw anyone he knew and he told me he didn't. I dont think he's cheating on me and i dont even want to think about that right now, but its the sole fact that he's been lying to me. Anyways...so we argued about it for a week and then on tuesday i was done with it. I was tired of being angry with him so I acted like nothing was wrong. He of course continued to act like a jerk. Wednesday morning he got up got dress and left...he told me he was leaving me. I havent seen him since then...he hasnt called. Hasnt come by to get anything. I dont know where he's staying, but he works 5 minutes away from here so i doubt its too far. He withdrew money from the checking so i wouldnt know where he was staying...pretty sure a hotel. I did try to talk to him about it wednesday night on the phone, but he argued with me and treated me like crap. He lied to me and now hes turning everything around on me. I'm not really sure what to do. I have no one around here to help me. My mom who lives 2 states away is coming home to visit next week..but other than that...i'm alone. I know the most important thing i can do right now is take care of myself, but its so hard because i'm sooo stressed and so hurt at the fact that he can just walk away from us over something so petty. He will be 31 on tuesday and its not like he's a young immature guy who hasnt had time to live life. I told him that everyone even his family are going to think he's a slime ball and he told me he doesn't care what they think....they will just be happy that hes happy..wtf?? I had no idea he wasn't happy. He never gave me the slightest idea that he was unhappy. He wanted this baby just as much as i do, now hes going to walk away from us. I hope i don't see him...i've been able to stay strong for the past couple days, but if i see him it will just make me miss him like 1000 times more.
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