No way do wat u want to! my best friend is with another guy and just gave birth to her daughter and theyre together and the babys dad is of with someone else..
do what u want to do! dont worry what other people think, they wont think anything of it anyway its your life and its your choice.. Good Luck XxX

i'm going through the same predicament. go with the nice guy. I couldnt stand the father of my child. still cant cuz he acts like a 5 year old, which is fine when you're 5. but when he didnt get his way, lets just say he wasnt happy.
alot of people at school are completely against it. becuase he spread a bunch of lies about me.
i have 3 people left that like me in the school, that actually have brains.
but you know what, the guy i'm with now, id never trade for the world.
do what you know is right, what you want..and stick with it.
you dont look like a hussy...you look like you're trying to make things right for yourself and your baby.
and whats great it, the guy doesnt mind, and will probably help you, unlike the father (normally).
your best bet is go with what you know is right.
touching it ou with the baby's dad, wont solve anything. it will just make matters worse as time progresses. and eventually, a divorce later on while your kid is still in middle school.
and thats not fair for your kid either.

if you wanna talk? i know where your comming from. and i felt that same way for a while...in the end i was only hurting myself staying with the father of my baby.
hope this helps.

haha sorry "toughing" spelling errors. sorry

Princess,

It sounds like these women have some good advice for you. bringing a baby into an already questionable situation can only make things worse.
If this man is as wonderful as you think he is it is worth a shot. If your baby's father wants to be a part of the baby's life that is good, but he doesn't have to be a part of yours.
One thing you learn as you get older is that as hard as it is to have others looking down on you, they are not in your situation and have no place to judge. You are the maker of your own destiny, think and make wise decisions as much as you can and be proud that you are able to take control of your life instead of letting others make decisions for you. (AAlthough advice is often welcomed!)

Suzy

I'm going through a divorce and I'm pregnant by another man. So, no I don't think it's wrong. I think you should be with whoever makes you happy. Don'y stay in a relationship with the baby's father if you are not happy with him. It will only make things worse.

If the babies Dad wants to be there for his child then he has every right to be there unless he is physically abusive. Sure he doesn't need to be around you now while you are pregnant but he deserves the right to know when his child is born, and deserves a right to see the child (unless there is a good reason he shouldn't). I know what kinda emotional damage taking a child away from the father can do to the dad and it's not nice, i've seen it first hand. Stay with the nice guy cause you seem to be clicking - obviously your not meant to be in a relationship with your ex but let him be there for the baby when he/she is born, if that is what he wants. If he doesn't want anything to do with you or the baby then he's not worth ur time so don't worry about it.

I don't think it is wrong in any way, shape, or form! If you are not happy and your relationship has become a "relation-shit" then all the more reason to leave the guy you are having a child with. As long as you are happy now. Besides, it would just be added tension in the household if you and him were fighting and that would not be good for the baby. I wish you the best of luck!!!

I am glad to know that I am the only person who CAN NOT stand the father of my child. We were together for 2 1/2 years and though I tried to break up with him a number of times, he would somehow guilt me into staying with him. I could never figure out why I was always pulled back in. I'm reading a book now called "Why does he do that?" about abusive men and it describes him "to a T" in this book. He is abusive when it is just him and me so everybody else thinks he's "the greatest." He too has the anger of a 5 year old and has been making my life a living hell. I have been counselled by several therapists and even a lawyer to get away from him as he has already threatened to try to sue me for custody. He and his family have become very possessive and obsessed with the child who is not even born yet. So I DEFINATELY do not think you should try to "tough it out" with the babys daddy if you can not stand him. Right now it's just you, the baby is not yet born. You need to do what is right for you.