oh and im totally jealous whenever any other girl speaks to him when im not around, am i the only mad jealous pregnant woman?

I am completely the same way and I dont know why because he has never given me reason to doubt his loyalty to me. I have not found a way to overcome the jealousy or anything and if you do, please let me know. Sorry I did not help but I just wanted you to know that I am with you on this one. Good luck and try not to let it get to you...I know...hard to do!
~Cassandra~

please read my discussion- hormonal. I think I'm going through the same thing as you. My husband has never cheated on me but lately he's been doing this classmates.com thing and it is totally driving me nuts. He doen't even seem to notice that I so devastated b/c he's says it's just my hormones. What I can say is, if he hasn't done anything, and I mean anything, it is the hormones. If there seems to be something strange going on (like in my case unfortunately) then he will stay under suspicion.

hormones are a bitch!
my boyf hasnt done anything wrong, its me being totally over suspicious but i cant help it, like tonight he's going out with the guys and im really in a bad mood about it even though he hardly ever goes out! i can see im being irratioal but its hard to stop it. i bet your guy is just the same and hasnt done anything wrong, its our hormones, but i hate it so much when people say that to me, "ooooo its just your hormones" i know im hormonal!!!!!!!! i dont need everyone else telling me as well! do you know what i mean??

I can't offer any fix to the whole jealousy thing, but you are not alone, My husband has never and probably will never cheat on me but I have convinced myself he is about to, I even boldly accused him of sleeping with my own sister, if another girl is even in his sight I fly off the handle, I think it a mixture of hormones and low self esteem for me, It's hard to feel desirable when you're gaining weight by the minute!And I've tried talking with my husband about it and it always ends up with me accusing him of something else, I just try to keep reminding myself that this will soon be over when I have this baby, this is our 3rd and the jealousy has been a constant factor in all my pregnancies, my husband has learned not to take it to much to heart although it makes him mad still, I find that I feel a little bit better with constant asssurance of his commitment, it gets monotonous for him but he does what he has to,I know it sucks so bad to be so consumed I feel like I've given up control of my emotions they do their own thing I'm just riding passenger!

i know exactly what you mean! My boyfriend is the most amazing person i could hope to be with, and would never do anything to hurt me, i trust him with my life and can say that with 110% certainty. But i went through the same thing, i think that part is hormones, and dealing with the changes in your body. I get really down sometimes because my belly is so big and i don't feel attractive sometimes so i would worry that my boyfriend would go find someone more attractive but being the crazy hormonal person i am, i told him my fears and turns out all i needed was a little reassurance. I know i was being crazy, my boyfriend tells me i'm beautiful every day (lies most of the time I THINK) haha but it sure does make me feel better. I guess i deal with it by reminding myself that pregnancy is a beautiful thing, by making myself feel beautiful every day, not allowing myself to get all dowdy during my pregnancy, exercising and eating right. You need to make sure you continue to love yourself, and learn to love your beautiful belly. Your partner does! That belly is the product of all the love you two have for eachother, thats pretty damn amazing!

I had the same exact thing happen with my husband. You really have to reasure your self about how well you know your boyfriend and if there is anything to really be worried about. Talk to him, see if he is willing to share things that bother you, such as cell phone call lists, receipts, emails. All of that stuff will help relax you if he is willing to allow you to investigate it. That is what my husband has allowed me to do, even though he feels it is crazy he trys to understand. That is my only advice, sorry I cant be more help!

U r so not alone in this i feel the same way ... everyone tells me that after I have the baby things will get back to normal .