Okay guys, is this hormones or am I right? Heres the situation. The Hubby has a terrible cold ( I will give him that!)...He has functioned properly the last 3 days with it, worked, cleaned, errands and such. Today we get up had the whole day planned, he called out of work. We were going to my prenatal appointment, the bank, the post office and to do laundry. He just basically wanted a chill day. He was all gung ho and fine with it and ready to go, then we started planning out how we wanted to do things, and what order he started getting all pissy because I figured we could put the laundry in and go get a couple things done while its in and then run back throw them in the dryer and finish our day early so that we had time together and would be home by the afternoon...He started yelling at me that we would be wasting gas, mind you everything is within a couple miles of each other, and yet he wanted to go do everything, then put laundry in come home, go back to put it in the dryer, then have to come back home....isnt that wasting gas when our house is about 6 miles out of the direction...plus does anyone else think he is being pissy now that I told him that he didnt need to be nasty just because he was sick and didnt like the way I planned the day? I mean I was trying to kill a bunch of birds with one stone so that we could get home earlier and spend time together and let him rest, now he doesnt even want to go to my doctors appointment for the baby with me, and he says I'll stay home and clean the babies room....I was like what the #$%^ If you can be home and up cleaning, then you can come and help me today for a couple hours (mind you thats what he wanted all morning till I told him to stop yelling and being pissy because I wanted a game plan before we left the house)...now he says he will stay home the whole day and I said then if thats the case then you need to stay in bed the whole day and kill the cold along with the attitude...I mean I am pregnant and have aches and pains everyday but I dont allow that to make me a bitch and treat people like shit so why because he has a cold and doesnt like what I am saying should he be one! ERRRRRRRRR! am I wrong and being a bitch on this or does my point make sense ladies...I mean he did call out and so my thoughts anyway are that he should be in bed resting but he doesnt want to do that...
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