
Pregnancy Support Group
Welcome to the waiting room for anticipating moms and dads. Whether you're expecting your first or a new little brother or sister, meet other parents in this community who are also looking forward to a new addition to the family.

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Ok so basically I'm 18, and I'm pregnant. This wasn't planned and I'm at university. My problem is after weeks of heartache I decided to keep the baby. This was a very hard choice for me as I'm totally un-prepared. However, my ex has now said if I keep the baby it will ruin his life and he will never talk to me again. He says his whole family hate me, but if I have an abortion he will be there for me and support me and still be my friend. He has such a hold on my, and I'm ashamed to say I don't know what to do now I can't bear the thought of not speaking to him I can't last a few hours let alone a lifetime without speaking to him as I am totally in love, despite him treating me terribly. We've been together for 18 months an my whole life revolved around him. But I don't want an abortion, I don't believe in it and I don't know if I could do it. Please someone help
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I'm really sorry to hear about all this and I hope he smartens up soon. It's going to be hard but you will get through it, I'm sure.
I know it seems like he is your world and that you can't do this alone, but you can. Trust me, you can. My mom had my sister at 16, was kicked out of her home, had no one but an abusive husband who hurt her and my sister. She got away, raised the child on her own, and everything turned out to be wonderful. She met my dad, had me and my other sister, and they live a happy life together.
You can live without him, you can live without people who hate you just because you had a baby.
It will be ok.