He's manipulating you and this is totally your choice. You have to make the decision for yourself, and for your child. He might be upset now and so might his family but he will come around eventually. And I know it's going to be hard, but explain to him that you are doing what your doing and there is nothing he can do.
I'm really sorry to hear about all this and I hope he smartens up soon. It's going to be hard but you will get through it, I'm sure.

I agree with Sandra. He is manipulating you into not keeping this baby. He will come around. You are stronger than you think, don't let him control you.

I don't think you will be able to live with yourself if you have an abortion. Boyfriends can come and go, but you will have to live with this choice. Could adoption be an option for you guys? If he really does cut you off, I'm living proof that as painful as it would be, you would survive and go on to be happy again - probably happier than you are now. Be strong!

You shouldn't let anyone push you into anything you don't beleive in, you may think that you can't be without him, but if you have an abortion with any doubt you will have to carry that guilt for the rest of your life, he's being immature,when it comes down to it it is no one's choice but your own, you have to make one that you can live with

It sounds like you already decided to keep the baby, and that was after you did alot of soul searching. Don't let him try to control you. You have to do for you, I hope you follow your heart. There is always adoption.

It sounds like you have pretty much made up your mind...you don't want an abortion. There is other alternatives if you can't keep the baby...like adoption. I think he does not love you like you love him if he is not willing to support you in wanting to keep the baby. He helped make the child after all. I believe you should do what is right in your own heart, but you should also think everything through very carefully. Whatever you decide is permanent and you are stuck with your decision you choose. I have known mothers to have abortion and feel guilty for the rest of their lives. The same goes for adoption...they always wondered "what if?". But, at least with adoptions most people whom adopt will let the mother visit and keep contact with the child. But you do need to honestly do what is best for you AND the baby. I wish you the best of luck with everything and if you ever need to talk I am always on at least once a day. God bless. :D

He's being really shitty to you!!! If you have an abortion he'll still be your 'friend'? That sounds like he's not willing to stick with you for the long haul no matter what you choose. I'm so sorry that he's being so immature and inconsiderate of you. Start spending more time with your friends and family and people who will give you REAL support. And yes, adoption is always an option too. It sounds like abortion would hurt you just as much as not having him around would, and eventually you'll get over him, but its not so easy with an abortion, especially if you're already against it. You WILL manage to get through this!! Good luck!

Any man who pressures you to have an abortion is not a friend and is in no way supportive. He is manipulative, selfish, controlling, and downright mean. Is he really worth it? If you have an abortion for him, you will always know that you did that and he will still control you. He will not be supportive because forcing your decision is not support.

I know it seems like he is your world and that you can't do this alone, but you can. Trust me, you can. My mom had my sister at 16, was kicked out of her home, had no one but an abusive husband who hurt her and my sister. She got away, raised the child on her own, and everything turned out to be wonderful. She met my dad, had me and my other sister, and they live a happy life together.

You can live without him, you can live without people who hate you just because you had a baby.

It will be ok.